tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9060105.post110868168201258906..comments2023-07-11T07:45:43.657-07:00Comments on The Brown Sugary: guess...Brown Sugarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12568181804549868507noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9060105.post-1109049779520307652005-02-21T21:22:00.000-08:002005-02-21T21:22:00.000-08:00brown sugar, i was impressed with shea's advice. ...brown sugar, i was impressed with shea's advice. while there is no guarantee that the perfect woman will walk into your life right now just because you sincerely and humbly desire that, i think shea's advice to just chill out and be yourself is pretty sound. and yeah, don't listen to jeremy :-) <br />all that being said, i feel your pain. it can cause some anxiety when you start obsessing over "how will i meet 'HER'?" and how will i know? and what should i do? and how hard should i pursue? as a single guy who isn't old but isn't getting any younger, i feel your pain. <br />i am indeed coming to dallas again.... on saturday. i talked to timmy. i want to get a group together for dinner. so i hope you come. see you soon, yo. and thanks for the well wishes regarding guatemala. it will be an adventure for sure.kentbrantlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16281409794941451332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9060105.post-1108764694495044042005-02-18T14:11:00.000-08:002005-02-18T14:11:00.000-08:00i'm not stressing about it as much as it sounded i...i'm not stressing about it as much as it sounded i guess....it just seems that "just being myself" is not getting me anywhere with having a girlfriend....i am confident a girl will like me when she gets to know me..she will love my family and friends as well....just getting through that first interaction is the hardest part.Brown Sugarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12568181804549868507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9060105.post-1108762966486749052005-02-18T13:42:00.000-08:002005-02-18T13:42:00.000-08:00My 2nd word of advice, disregard Jeremy's advice (...My 2nd word of advice, disregard Jeremy's advice (except the introduction part).Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14764889193260761627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9060105.post-1108755957158079052005-02-18T11:45:00.000-08:002005-02-18T11:45:00.000-08:00adam, i think its a bad idea to assume that you'll...adam, i think its a bad idea to assume that you'll marry the first girl you date. you could get into trouble that way. <br /><br />i agree with shea. introduce yourself and the natural response is that shell tell you her name, then you can make out. its the natural progression. have fun!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9060105.post-1108685786213702902005-02-17T16:16:00.000-08:002005-02-17T16:16:00.000-08:00Adam...Adam, calm down, breathe. I think you're p...Adam...Adam, calm down, breathe. I think you're putting WAY to much stress on yourself about all of this. If you don't put so much pressure on yourself about it, I promise things will just naturally happen. ... For instance, about getting a girl's name, Just say, "Hi, I'm Adam" (and usually, in return, someone will say "Hi, I'm so-and-so".) If she doesn't, JUSK ASK Her. I promise I would never think a guys "wants" me if he asked my name. I would only assume that he would like to know my name.<br />Adam, you're a great guy. Again, don't pressure yourself about "finding someone." If its meant to happen, it will. And the moment you quit stressing about it, is the moment it just..well happens.<br />You don't have to be perfect, you just have to be you. That's what she should like the most about you anyway.Sheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14764889193260761627noreply@blogger.com